We all want to have fun with the people we meet at the sex party. The best way to achieve this is by using good manners and treating everyone you contact or meet with the same respect you want them to show you.
After all we are all here to have FUN.
Courtesy Works Everyone in the swinging scene has their own unique set of reasons for being there. Respect that and be polite when meeting them, be friendly and open when talking to them, and when playing with someone, thank them afterwards. Being polite does not mean you have to play with everyone, but if you want to turn someone down, do so gently - remember how you would feel if you would be turned down, so think how you would like to be treated.
Be PROACTIVE Party Organisers spend a lot of time making arrangements for the parties. Providing toiletries fresh robes, towels, foot wear and providing a safe place for your valuables. Also buffet and drinks are laid on. Everything you need to have a mind blowing and worry free time is taken care of. All you need to do is be open minded and bring lots of energy and banter.
Be APPRECIATIVE (when good manners dictate it) Attending a club or a paid sex party does not require any gifts or money from you beyond the contribution. Whilst it is neither requested nor expected, if you feel like bringing a small gift, i.e. chocolates or wine, the girls would be very touched.
Be Prepared Everything is catered for however, if you want to bring your own personal favourites like hairbrush, comb, toothbrush, cologne, intimate cleansing articles, condoms, etc.. Please feel free to do so.
Personal hygiene Nothing turns a person off faster and more effectively than an unclean body or stale breath. Even if you shower and perfume yourself before you leave home, it is always a good idea to freshen up again when you arrive at your destination. Travelling more than a few miles will undo a lot of your personal grooming.
Have respect for the feelings of others. Be aware, just like you, not everyone is comfortable in all situations. If someone is not comfortable, try helping them over the rough spots. Remember, you were a beginner once yourself. If it is obvious that things are not working out, remain polite and courteous; but alert the Party Manageress. Keep in mind that not all people feel the same about things. Remember this is all about group sex not 121s. NO hogging or making it difficult for others to join in. SHARING IS CARING!
Joining in If you are interested in swinging/playing with someone, let them know in a friendly way; they will respond positively. After all you are at a sex party so don’t be shy!! And there is always a Party Manageress around for help, advice and guidance. It’s your sex party, you are there to have fun so don’t just stand there like a wall flower join in. SHARING IS CARING!
Keep it Fun There is no reason to involve yourself in a group scene that you are not comfortable with. You are at an adult party, and in the swinging lifestyle to enjoy yourself, so only do what you want, when you want and with whom you want.
Drugs and alcohol There is a very strict no drug policy. Drinks are provided freely, that does not mean drunken behaviour. Any persons under the influence of drugs or excessive alcohol will be asked to leave by the Party Organisers.
Safe Sex It is up to us all to protect ourselves as well as our partners. Although research carried out in America suggests that the levels of all STD´s within the swinging scene are much lower than in the general population, it is compulsory to rubber up before penetration. In each bedroom, there are an abundance of condoms within easy reach.
Use of condoms should not offend anybody. Anyone not willing to take this precaution is acting selfishly and irresponsibly and will not be entertained. No Jacket, no entry.
After the party We value feedback both positive and, where appropriate, constructive criticism. The latter is best delivered in person at the party to avoid any misunderstanding, is easier to address and carries more credibility. On the other hand, it is always appreciated if positive feedback is posted on our forum or on other public boards. This encourages newbies to try us and ensures the ongoing success of the parties and somewhere for you to continue visiting!
Party Manageress As Party Organisers, we try to anticipate the needs of our guests. We have clean sheets on the beds; keep plenty of clean washcloths, robes and towels which are available in abundance. At each event we have Party Manageress who will greet the guests, go through procedures and show them through the house so that they will know where the bathrooms, kitchen, and other rooms are located.
The Party Manageress will identify the nervous new comers, and introduce them to the hostesses who will introduce them to the delights of group fun. If someone is standing alone in the corner, the Party Manageress will go and have a quiet chat, encourage them and put them at their ease.
Finally, the most important thing - Enjoy Yourselves. You are at the Best Adult Party in London